Will you be happy when you are 35, or when you were 35? Why?-zhihu - 知乎 Dude, for us at 35, "happy" is a feeling, but it's also a choice Let me tell you about my current situation at 35 I have twin daughters who are 7 years old and in second grade My husband is a technical engineer in the field of engineering, and his income is not very high I have just joined a 500-strong law company, and the company wants me to transfer from Beijing to Shanghai for two years