April 2025 – Andy Wells The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success April 26, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Sex Dating
Kill Your Inner Loser Hey, I’m Andy I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance joy I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since I learned to love myself embrace each day with gratitude
When I had Unrealistic Standards, I Didn’t Get Laid [Storytime with . . . Exactly like Good Looking Loser did in his early 20’s I’m a fucking retard for repeating the same pattern, given I’d already read all his articles about lowering your standards Guess we have to walk our own path make our own mistakes But now I want to get laid
Why spending $200 on this one thing is the best investment you’ll ever . . . Most guys don’t hesitate to blow $200 on: a night out they barely remember the next day drinks to try to numb the pain of a mediocre life Uber rides to nowhere important porn subscriptions they’ll just regret video games they’ll barely play takeaway food that’ll just make them gain weight new shoes they don’t need But spending $200 on their future? On their goals? On becoming a man
He Dated 5 Girls in 2 Weeks — By Finally Being HONEST! November 17, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) When this client first joined coaching, he’d only approached eight women in his entire life He was nervous, overthinking everything, and terrified of rejection Two months later, he was telling women “You’re sexy” and going on five dates in two weeks So what changed?
Why I Care So Damn Much (And Why That Matters For You) Why I Care So Damn Much (And Why That Matters For You) November 18, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) People say to me sometimes: “Andy, you care too much Why do you pour so much into your coaching calls and your youtube vids?” Because I remember being the guy who had no one No guidance, no roadmap, no support
How I Beat Depression Learned to be an Optimist (My Story) Loser’s mindset and all of that I’ve long-since moved past it and forgiven him, but man… as a teenager and in most of my 20’s it absolutely ate away at my soul Feeling like your father doesn’t give a shit about you is rough, and I empathise with everyone who went through something similar
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Why Am I Getting Shit Tested? – Andy Wells - Kill Your Inner Loser The issue is a tonne of guys DON’T want to play games, they DON’T want to have to jump through hurdles… but they’re been indoctrinated by some loser pickup artist who’s convinced them you MUST pass shit tests in order to get laid Let’s be honest – most pickup artists look like fucking shit; like something the dog threw up