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Just Found Out: My wayward cheating wife When evaluating infidelity behavior we can note several things Like inviting a man over to sleep in the marital bed this is not a Tinder-date or some spur-of-the-moment event A workplace infatuation, a drunken ONS, even online dating this is in the car, at a motel or somewhere nobody knows you
I could use some advice - survivinginfidelity. com Maybe Bob simply doesn’t really care about the affair People unaffected by infidelity don’t tend to get it I think this is likely I know I didn't understand before I experienced it personally This is why I usually downgrade advice from people who have never experienced it They just don't know what they are talking about most of the time
Just Found Out: After 45 Years of Marriage - SurvivingInfidelity. com Let me start by saying that infidelity is a coping strategy That includes an emotional affair (EA) or a physical affair (PA) This was a concept that was really hard for me to grasp, but once I did, it helped me understand it better Your wife has been a mother and married woman for 45 years
Just Found Out: Nearly a year on. . . I don't think the adhd caused the infidelity and neither does she (though people with adhd are 3 5x more likely to commit infidelity according to some stats I read), moreover I think its preventing her focusing on the reconciliation as its "hard work" vs hyperfocusing on something shiny and new (the affair)
My Wife had an Intense, Highly Deceptive Affair - SurvivingInfidelity. com This place is a vast reservoir of first-hand, crowd-sourced wisdom about infidelity, and the overall goal here is to get out of infidelity There are things we see over and over, beginner mistakes, many of which are associated with MC's Here are a couple of examples of how MC's generally recommend the diametric opposite of this site:
Reconciliation: The R Thing -- Nine Years Later I think there are "positives" that can come out of infidelity I became much stronger in standing up for myself In the past I gave in to avoid an argument Not any more since affair#2 I don’t believe his lies He can no longer gaslight and or stonewall me I’m not his maid service and I don’t do his laundry, errands, etc
How to respond to a betrayed when theyre lashing out Death is something at some point you expect Infidelity is one thing you should be able to count on not to happen The marriage as you knew it is dead - killed by one of the partners who vowed to hold it sacred A new one then needs to be built And one has to trust the other who destroyed it to help rebuild It a mind fuck It can be done
Just Found Out: Lied to for 13 years - survivinginfidelity. com Cooley2here suggest finding a counselor who treats infidelity aftermaths and I agree wholeheartedly She also suggests speaking to a lawyer to get counsel on your legal rights You need that information in order to make any sort of rational decision As the old saying goes, "Knowledge is Power" Also, a book for you